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[Information on boosting immunity] The power of the heart changes medicine (XNUMX)

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We will introduce excerpts from past musubi magazines and books published by Seishoku Publishing.
In the 27th installment, we will introduce an article from the December 12 issue of "Musubi Magazine" about how the power of the heart changes medicine. (XNUMX times in total).
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A "good person" is someone who thinks about profit and loss and works hard The main premise is "I am a person who is disliked" Mr. Kokoroya cited "a good person" as the most common point among the people who come to his lectures.
　"A good person" has a favorable image, but Mr. Kokoroya continues, "A person who thinks about profit and loss."
　"If I say something like this, it might hurt the other person, but it seems kind, but I'm thinking of the loss that if the other person gets hurt, they'll hate me. A good person is a greedy person who lives only thinking about profit and loss.”
　Furthermore, "people who are thinking about profit and loss" are also called "hard workers".
　After saying, "People who can do their best if they try hard, and people who can't do their best even though they try hard, they are both hard workers. In other words, people who think that hard work is wonderful." The shop refuses.Why.
　"If something doesn't go well, say you didn't try hard enough. If you do well, say it's because you worked hard. There's no one else around. If you succeed, it's because of me, if you fail, it's because of him. Good people basically don't trust others, and when you say you don't trust others, you go around and don't trust yourself."
　``I don't trust others'' = ``I don't trust myself'' means ``If I show my true nature, that person will hate me. I think somewhere," Kokoroya explained.
　``If you have the basic premise that you are a person who is basically hated, you have no choice but to work hard,'' he said. It means the end."

In order to get rid of hard work quickly
　According to Mr. Kokoroya, depression is also a state of "trying too hard and the breaker trips." Before I can cure my depression, I have to get rid of this hard work as soon as possible.”
　“Then, what should I do to get my hard work done quickly? (To do that), be patient. I want to stop doing it as soon as possible.
　When I talk to office workers about this, they always say, "It's impossible not to endure." It turns into Yasha.
So, where did the “hard worker” come from?The story got to the point.

"Mother seemed to be in pain." From there, a hard worker was born.

Kokoroya asked visitors whether the mothers they saw when they were little seemed happy or tired.As a result, only a few people raised their hands to say, "He seemed happy," and many said, "He seemed tired."
Regarding the latter, Mr. Kokoroya said, "A hard-working person has something in common."
　Aside from whether the mother was actually suffering or suffering, the child who sees her as "poor" will continue to do her best to make her mother smile, to get good grades, and to be a good child. This is the birth of a “hard worker”.
　Then, according to Mr. Kokoroya, ``I'm a worthless person who won't be recognized if I don't try hard. And I'm a helpless person who can't help that person.I can't save people.I can't make them happy."
　Such a "hard worker" has a major premise that "I'm a useless person" no matter how hard I try "for others", so I end up with "I can't improve with low self-affirmation". Starting from addition to subtraction: “Admitting yourself to failure”
　To put it simply, the major premise and sins disappear in the moment when you ask your mother, "You were happy, aren't you?"
　Even if that doesn't happen, Kokoroya's advice is to let her know that her happiness is not related to my hard work.
　Mr. Kokoroya said, "Being unfilial to your parents is the first time you become independent." As long as there are people who feel comfortable listening to it, I will continue to talk about it,” he said.
　Mr. Kokoroya proposed a way of life of "subtraction" by changing the way of life of "addition" of "try harder" and "become better".

　“It’s only when you stop doing the things you’ve been working so hard on and become useless, forgetful, and stupid that you realize how kind people are for the first time. Once you stop doing what you don't have and start doing all the things you want to do, you'll begin to feel gratitude for the first time.You can live your life in your own way, cause trouble for others, and even if you're such a useless person, it's okay to be here.This is the unbreakable confidence. "
　Continuing the subtraction, it becomes ``It is already decided that you are wonderful the moment you are born.''
　"While I'm working hard, I'm not living like myself."

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Jinnosuke Kokoroya
"Personality reform" psychological counselor who "solves problems by changing one's personality".Based in Kyoto, he runs seminar activities and counseling schools all over the country.He has numerous publications, totaling270Over XNUMX copies.